Nepalis have very good reputation here in the UAE

Nepalis have very good reputation here in the UAE. If we can have the balance of hard work and talent, no other nationals can beat Nepali workers in the labor market

By Bipin pokhrel

I have been working in United Arab Emirates for the past Three years. Before coming here in this rapidly developing country (many of my friends and) I used to think that the gulf countries didn’t have anything other than oil. That impression

has changed. I have learned something new while working in the Middle East (or West Asia) and seeing the way my host country is doing phenomenal progress in economy. UAE has become an example in Asia that if the governments have the strong will power anything is possible to bring in a new era in a country. Let us not forget that, to achieve such progress, this country is getting hard work support from thousands of Nepali nationals.

Of course, Nepali people are naturally hard workers. They are committed to their duties: either inside their homeland or in abroad. Important thing is that how much a worker gets as the return for his hard work. Because they get paid less for the job they do, many Nepalese have left their home for foreign land. More and more are leaving even as I am writing these lines. Also, there are few opportunities back in home and we don’t have fair competition (the employment judgments are mostly

unfair). I know it’s not really good to appreciate foreign place in contrast to the homeland. And I am not doing that here but just trying to share my experience as a worker here in UAE with the readers of this site:

GOODNAME

Nepalis have very good reputation here in the UAE. They are most trusted among all foreign nationals. Because of their hard work and honesty some qualified Nepali youths are now getting very responsible roles and powerful posts in several big and multinational companies. Big companies choose Nepali people for sensitive and responsible posts and jobs. It is already proved from the statements of the UAE’s Labor minister that he is ready to welcome more Nepali workers in the UAE in coming days.

PROBLEMS OF MAJORITY NEPALI WORKERS

Overwhelming majority of Nepali youths attend government-run schools back in Nepal that have poor quality and infrastructure. The educational standards in these schools, unfortunately, are not up to what is really needed in this competitive world. Majority of the workforce of Nepali origin in foreign countries come form that group- educated in those public high schools. Because of poor education those youths are not being able to be benefited from the golden opportunity where they are working. They can’t speak the foreign language (especially the English). They also don’t have some accountancy knowledge that is needed in many jobs here. Another problem with Nepali workers here is that they lack certain technical skills.

SUGGESTION

We need to establish many more technical institutes in Nepal to produce technically-skilled youths who could be used in home or sent to foreign countries where they can earn relatively more. There is always high demand of workforce in the fields like of accountancy, hospitality industry, retail business, construction, computer, teaching and many more in the UAE and other developed countries as well. In my view, our youth population needs technical skills to be able to work in such fields. If we can have the balance of hard work and talent, no other nationals can beat Nepali workers in the labor market anywhere in the world.

…BUT NOT THE LEAST

Our country is in transition now. Every Nepali working abroad is always worried about the country. Because of unrest and volatile political situation back in home, people are suffering a lot. We just request all political leaders to break all differences, maintain harmony and take the country on the path of peace and development

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 And it is difficult to know that someday I will  have to let you go.


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 I just can't imagine a day of my life without  you...
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दुश्मन धेरै थिए आँखा छल्नु पर्थ्यो फेरि,, लुकिछिपी भेट्नुको छुट्टै आन्नद थियो। आज उनि कारमा छिन म भट्टीमा छु।।

दुश्मन धेरै थिए आँखा छल्नु पर्थ्यो फेरि,,
लुकिछिपी भेट्नुको छुट्टै आन्नद थियो। आज उनि कारमा छिन म भट्टीमा छु।।
उसलाई मैले चिनेको एउटा अफिसमा हो । खै के काम विशेष म मेरो साथी राजेशलाई भेटन् गएको थिए उसको अफिसमा । उनलाई त्यहाँ देखे राम्री लाग्यो । हाँसे औपचारिकता निभाए मैले । राजेशको कोठामा गए । गफ गरे तर जति गफ गरे आफैले विसे । उनको निश्चल मुहार अगाडी ठोक्किन आइरहयो । त्यो दिन त्यसै वित्यो । उसको अफिसबाट घर तिर लागे मन नलागीकन उनको स्मृतिहरु लिएर ।
रातभर नै अनिदो भएर सोचे मलाई यो के भयो किन उ प्रति यस्तो सोच । केहि होइन भनेर आफैलाई सम्झाए तर मन मानेन किन किन उ प्रति त्यसै आत्मीयता बढ्यो अपरिचितमा । मनहरु त्यसै खुशी भए । के गरुँ कसो गरुँ को अवस्थामा थिए म । एक कप चिया बनाए झ्याल निर बसेर बाहिर हेर्दै चिया पिइरहेको थिए । एक्कासी कोहि मेरो घर तिर आए जस्तो लाग्यो विस्तारै विस्तारै । चिन्न सकिन मैले अलि नजिक आएपछि थाहा पाए त्यो राजेशको अफिसमा देखेको केटी नै रहिछ । कहु जान लागेकी रहिछ भनेर हेरे मैले ।

उनी म वस्ने घर तिर नै लम्कीरहेकी थिइन । म अलमल्ल परे कतै मेरो घरमा आउन लागेकी हो कि भनेर तर होइन रहेछ । उसको साथी मेरो घरको बगलमा बस्ने रहिछ । सायद उसलाई भेटन आएकी होला । म ढुक्क भए । त्यस दिन उ कति बेला त्यो कोठाबाट निस्कन्छे भनेर झ्यालमानै कुरेर बसे म । उनी लामौ मौनता पछि उनी साथीसँग फर्केर आइन मेरो घर तिर हेर्दै गइन । मलाई देखि सायद उसले थाहा पाएको हुनपर्छ म त्यो घरमा वस्छु भनेर ।
म त्यसै के के सोच्न थाले । बलुकीपख म तरकारी किन्न बजार गए । जादै गर्द उनलाई पनि देखे सायद साथीसँग आएकी होला । बोल्न मन लाग्यो तर बोलिन । उसले हाँसेर बोल्न संकेत गरिन । तर खासै बोलचाल भएन तर उनको साथी मसँग दाई के छ खबर भनेर बोल्न थालिन । ठिकै छ भनेर उत्तर दिए । एक किसिमको चिसो भयो मन । उनलाई देखेर मन हाँस्यो । उसले साथीलाई जाने हैन भनेर संकेत गरिन । म भने उ नगए हुन्थ्यो भने सोच्दथे । तर उनी हामी गयौ है भनेर गइन । मैले अवाक् हेरी रहे उनको पदचाप । उसले केहि वहानामा नजर म तिर गरी । उसले मलाई देखि हाँसी । म मनमनै गद्गद भए ।
अब के बहानामा राजेशको अफिसमा जाने भनेर सोच्न थाले । राजेशलाई म पनि तेरो अफिसमा जागीर खान्ा पर् यो भन्न गए । उसले अचम्म्ा मानेर म प्रति हेर्यो मैले मौन रुपमा हो भने । सधै कति जागीर नखाने है राजेश तेरो अफिसमा म पनि जागीर खान्छु है उसले केहि भन्न सकेन मौन भयो । उसले सोध्यो किन के कारण हो  जागीर खाने भन न मैले भने यतिकै वस्दा दिक्क लाग्यो त्यसैले । राजेशले केहि सोचेको थिएन तर मेरो योजना उनी थिइन । लक्ष्य बनिन उनी प्राप्ती का लागी । राजेशले मेरो कुरा काट्न सकेन र मलाई आफनो अफिसमा एकाउन्ट हेर्न राख्यो । त्यसै वहानामा अफिसमा एउटा पार्टी पनि भयो । म भने उनको आगमनको पर्खाइमा थिए । उनी धेरै अबेर आइ निलो कुर्ता सलवारको पहिरहनमा धेरै राम्री देखिएकी थिइन उनी ।
उनको साथीलाई मैले छेडेर कस्ती राम्री तिम्री साथी भनेर जिस्काए । नजिकै थिइन उनी लजाइन । गाजलु ती आँखाहरु मानौ मलाई हेर्न नै व्यस्त थिए म पनि तिनका नयनहरुमा भिज्न व्यस्त थिए ।
आज तिम्रो परिचय एकजना सँग गराउनु छ भनेर राजेशले लग्यो । मैले सोधे को हो भन न उसले हेर्न भेटे पछि आफै थाहा पाउछँस । मेरो मनले सोच्दै थियो कतै उही त होइन । के भनेर चिनाउने भयो अब यसले भनेर डरायो । उनीहरु तिनको नजिक गए  भन्यो आभा उ मेरो साथी म अक्मक्क परे

म के बोल्ने भनेर सोच्न थाले तर उनी अघि भएपछि मैले मेरो मनको धेरै भावनाहरु उनी सामु पोखे । उनले पनि कति विचारहरुमा सहमती जनाइन । ज्यादै शिष्ट थिइन । म मनमनै धेरै हर्षीत थिए । एक्कासी राजेश आयो म तिर भन्यो बियर नलिएको मैले अह ! भने । म लिन्न सायद आभाले थाहा पाई । म उसँग उसको परिवारको बारेमा सोध्न्ा थाले वातावरण सहज बनाउनका लागि । नजिक रहनका लागिअपनत्वका लागि । हामी धेरै बेर बातचीत गरिरहयौ । यसै बीच राजेश आयो मलाई व्यंग्य हान्न थाल्यो र भन्यो थाहा छ आभा जी हाम्रो साथीलाई पनि मन मिल्ने साथी खोजी दिनुहोस् न आफु जस्तै राम्री । उनी अक्क न बक्क परि के भन्ने के नभन्ने । मैले हे राजेश के भनेको तिमीले । होइन आभा जी त्यस्तो केहि होइन भन्न थाल्यो । आखीर पोल खोल्यो राजेशले भनेर उ मनमनै भन्न थाल्यो । आभाले पनि सायद सहमती जनाएकी होला त्यसैले उ मख्ख परिरही । राजेशको कुरा सुनेर । त्यस रात पार्टी पछि म घर फर्के र उनी पनि । 

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I was given such a great gift. It's a miracle that never stops amazing me and reminding me to give thanks, every day. Having a wife and daughter gives me a lot more pu


I was much more selfish before, but now I think about what kind of role model I'll be. I just want to be a better man.

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THREE HARSH TRUTHS ABOUT LOVE

The problem with idealizing love is that it causes us to develop unrealistic expectations about what love actually is and what it can do for us. These unrealistic expectations then sabotage the very relationships we hold dear in the first place. Allow me to illustrate:

1. Love does not equal compatibility. Just because you fall in love with someone doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a good partner for you to be with over the long term. Love is an emotional process; compatibility is a logical process. And the two don’t bleed into one another very well.

I think it's awesome to see people of all

different ages from all kinds of backgrounds come together for the love of music.

My beautiful daughters, I was blessed

My beautiful daughters, I was blessed with two of you...
You will never know how proud I am of all the things you do.

You came into my world, so tiny and so small...
And I was in awe at the wonder of it all.

Then you placed your little hand in mine...
There was no denying, my heart was yours 'til the end of time.

I have watched you both throughout the years, laugh, cry and grow...
And it is difficult to know that someday I will have to let you go.

I just can't imagine a day of my life without you...
Because you're a part of me and my love for you is true.

So just remember, no matter how old you are or where you may be...
There's someone who needs you and loves you and that someone is me

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My second love

My second love 

 My longest relationship was 13 months with my second love. He was one of the most wonderful, amazing guy ever. However, his feelings towards me, was something to strong for me to handle. We are, exactly 2 years 364 days apart. & everyday with him was truly amazing. I really loved him, but he still loves me. It’s so hard to be around him now, ‘cos I let him go, but he hasn’t given up on me. I want to be friends with him, but it’s so hard. Him and I had so much memories together. We were off/on for awhile. People thought, him and I were the prefect couple, until the day when everything started to fall apart. He become, someone I hated. A jealous, mean, selfish, abusive and clingly type that I could not handle. Our relationship started to die on our 7th month with each other when I found out he lied about his virginity to me. & then, I found out more and more lies & I couldn’t take it. I wanted to break down and cry. The person I thought he was, disappeared. I admit, I changed also, I became more independent, abusive & girly. Something he couldn’t handle either. I wish, our relationship ended in a good note but, it didn’t. He left me but then asked for me back. I couldn’t accept it, I didn’t want him back 'cos, truth be told, I lost feelings for him on our 10th month but didn’t have the courage to end it with him. I know, I’m not a good person, but who is? My second love, I’m sorry for everything I’ve done to you. Please, get over me, since I’m already over you.

First Love.

Alright, to start off this heartbreak was a long distance relationship. I met him during summer of ‘08, thru a mutual friend. He was really nice, but I meant to only TEXT him. I’m a friendly person & I overlook to talk/t hiext. So I gave him my number, 

The point is. I fell in love with someone

 before I even saw them. When I did see him he was shorter than me and I didn’t even care. We only saw each other twice within the 2 years that we’ve been

चिन्दीन तिरस्कार , घात चिन्दीन

चिन्दीन तिरस्कार , घात चिन्दीन
कस्तो छ खै विश्वास अनी साथ चिन्दीन ।

बोलीचाली , भाषा अनी उस्तै छन् शरिर पनी
ठुलो , सानो के हो कुन्नी जात चिन्दीन ।।

फुर्सद छैन सोच्न मलाई , न त कैल्यै रहर जाग्यो
के लाई भन्छन् साँझ , बिहान , प्रभात चिन्दीन ।।

सधैँ उस्तै लाग्छ मलाई बहने यो समय नी
पुर्णिमा र औँसीको त्यो रात चिन्दीन ।।

परिचित म एक्लै नै छु , बाँकी सबै बिरानो छन्
को हो आफ्नो ? , परायाको जमात चिन्दीन ।।

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म चाही पुरानो जमानाको परे। धन्न यो नियम चेन्ज नहुदै एउटा काम गर्नुपर्ने थियो

म चाही पुरानो जमानाको परे। धन्न यो नियम चेन्ज नहुदै एउटा काम गर्नुपर्ने थियो, त्यो गरिएछ। कुरा गरेको किताब खानाको जमानाको। कम सजिलै भाथ्यो। तर दौदिनुपर्यो चारतिर तेती बेला पनि। अब क्रान्तिकारी परिबर्तन भाको बेलामा दुख तपाइलाई बढी नै हुने भयो।

यात्रा सुरतक्षित छैन..................

यात्रा सुरतक्षित छैन यो खुल्ला आकाशमा पनि विषादी मिसिएको खबर सुन्छु बतासमा पनि सायद हाम्रै ठुला भना.....

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