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THREE HARSH TRUTHS ABOUT LOVE

The problem with idealizing love is that it causes us to develop unrealistic expectations about what love actually is and what it can do for us. These unrealistic expectations then sabotage the very relationships we hold dear in the first place. Allow me to illustrate:

1. Love does not equal compatibility. Just because you fall in love with someone doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a good partner for you to be with over the long term. Love is an emotional process; compatibility is a logical process. And the two don’t bleed into one another very well.

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My beautiful daughters, I was blessed

My beautiful daughters, I was blessed with two of you...
You will never know how proud I am of all the things you do.

You came into my world, so tiny and so small...
And I was in awe at the wonder of it all.

Then you placed your little hand in mine...
There was no denying, my heart was yours 'til the end of time.

I have watched you both throughout the years, laugh, cry and grow...
And it is difficult to know that someday I will have to let you go.

I just can't imagine a day of my life without you...
Because you're a part of me and my love for you is true.

So just remember, no matter how old you are or where you may be...
There's someone who needs you and loves you and that someone is me

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My second love

My second love 

 My longest relationship was 13 months with my second love. He was one of the most wonderful, amazing guy ever. However, his feelings towards me, was something to strong for me to handle. We are, exactly 2 years 364 days apart. & everyday with him was truly amazing. I really loved him, but he still loves me. It’s so hard to be around him now, ‘cos I let him go, but he hasn’t given up on me. I want to be friends with him, but it’s so hard. Him and I had so much memories together. We were off/on for awhile. People thought, him and I were the prefect couple, until the day when everything started to fall apart. He become, someone I hated. A jealous, mean, selfish, abusive and clingly type that I could not handle. Our relationship started to die on our 7th month with each other when I found out he lied about his virginity to me. & then, I found out more and more lies & I couldn’t take it. I wanted to break down and cry. The person I thought he was, disappeared. I admit, I changed also, I became more independent, abusive & girly. Something he couldn’t handle either. I wish, our relationship ended in a good note but, it didn’t. He left me but then asked for me back. I couldn’t accept it, I didn’t want him back 'cos, truth be told, I lost feelings for him on our 10th month but didn’t have the courage to end it with him. I know, I’m not a good person, but who is? My second love, I’m sorry for everything I’ve done to you. Please, get over me, since I’m already over you.

First Love.

Alright, to start off this heartbreak was a long distance relationship. I met him during summer of ‘08, thru a mutual friend. He was really nice, but I meant to only TEXT him. I’m a friendly person & I overlook to talk/t hiext. So I gave him my number, 

The point is. I fell in love with someone

 before I even saw them. When I did see him he was shorter than me and I didn’t even care. We only saw each other twice within the 2 years that we’ve been

चिन्दीन तिरस्कार , घात चिन्दीन

चिन्दीन तिरस्कार , घात चिन्दीन
कस्तो छ खै विश्वास अनी साथ चिन्दीन ।

बोलीचाली , भाषा अनी उस्तै छन् शरिर पनी
ठुलो , सानो के हो कुन्नी जात चिन्दीन ।।

फुर्सद छैन सोच्न मलाई , न त कैल्यै रहर जाग्यो
के लाई भन्छन् साँझ , बिहान , प्रभात चिन्दीन ।।

सधैँ उस्तै लाग्छ मलाई बहने यो समय नी
पुर्णिमा र औँसीको त्यो रात चिन्दीन ।।

परिचित म एक्लै नै छु , बाँकी सबै बिरानो छन्
को हो आफ्नो ? , परायाको जमात चिन्दीन ।।

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म चाही पुरानो जमानाको परे। धन्न यो नियम चेन्ज नहुदै एउटा काम गर्नुपर्ने थियो

म चाही पुरानो जमानाको परे। धन्न यो नियम चेन्ज नहुदै एउटा काम गर्नुपर्ने थियो, त्यो गरिएछ। कुरा गरेको किताब खानाको जमानाको। कम सजिलै भाथ्यो। तर दौदिनुपर्यो चारतिर तेती बेला पनि। अब क्रान्तिकारी परिबर्तन भाको बेलामा दुख तपाइलाई बढी नै हुने भयो।

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यात्रा सुरतक्षित छैन यो खुल्ला आकाशमा पनि विषादी मिसिएको खबर सुन्छु बतासमा पनि सायद हाम्रै ठुला भना.....

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